They both know bits and pieces of my heartache, but nowhere near what anyone here does. It's hard to verbalize. Ya know?
Hard to verbalize, yes, I know.
And I know all about an H on the road.
And I also know that someone can love you -- but that "love" isn't enough. Everyone is NOT capable of love in the way it was meant to be -- especially in a marriage. It sounds like your H might be handicapped in some ways by his family.