Partner left after 9 yrs - 18months on, reunited !

[MsMelancoly]

Thanks for sharing Ali. Very interesting to see a bit into the mind of a WAH/WABF.

The following sentance confirms what I thought.

but from his perspective he just wants to lay it to rest by never thinking about it ever again.

And we wonder why the WAS wants to maybe date after D.

Ali, I totally agree guilt drives them. Do you think their pride & society (what society expects) does as well?

Bravo - to your BF for being able to swallow his pride & his guilt in the name of love! That is a real man & not a boy in a man's body.

Cheers to you!!