doodles, gosh to be honest I think I've done a terrible job of enforcing consequences. Look even when H was living with ow, I was still having him stop by and I feel terrible about that in hindsight. It sends such a back message like I'm condoning the whole crap.
Karen, good idea!! I think I am actually going to get a book on setting boundaries b/c I need the help and I guess what I learn will help me in all aspects of my life.
I feel so disgusted with h right now I don't even feel like I want to be bothered anymore. I feel like I'm just wasting my time and he'll never change. We were suppose to have a movie night tonight and you know I didn't even bother. I had gotten the tickets so a few days ago so I just asked my sister to go with me. H called me several times saying that he's leaving work, I guess he was planning on making it this time, but I just didn't even bother to answer his calls. I'm just disgusted with him. I didn't even bother to cancel with him either. Not that I'm trying to do what he did but I didn''t want to go through the ropes of him standing me up or not getting there on time, etc. Why bother. My sis and I went and had a good time. I called him back after the movie and, of course, what does he say, did you enjoy your date? That's all he thinks of. Yack!!!! We had a real short convo. He said he was just seeing if I was ok, I said yes happily, and he said ok bye. Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!!!!
