YOu might want to check out this site since you're now dealing with infidelity. It'll help you with certain issues you may have and can even question WASs who have gone through an A for clarity.
Thanks for that. I registered as CIPA. I'm just waiting for the registraion confirmation
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13