Phoenix...AMEN!!lol...what u have said is the conclusion I have been coming to. I am thankful 4 this site bcuz everyone is so supportive. Like I said at the end of my story, I have recently told him to stay away from me & our daughter cuz he only causes us harm. Now all of a sudden he wants to fight in court 4 her. I know that he's only doing it cuz he's mad about losing control over me, so that's his way of trying to get me back under it. A crazy thing happened today while I was at the supermarket. I saw a girl shopping with her baby boy when the kids father came out of nowhere and tried to steal the baby and she was panicking and telling him "how could u so this?". While she was doing this, he was walking away with the baby, but the moment she said "fine take the baby and here is his formula and diapers" then he got mad and wanted 2 give the baby back. All he wanted was to control her and since his tactics weren't working, he punched her and threw her to the floor. I helped her and then the cops came. It's unfortunate that that had happened to her but at the same time, I feel like God had me see that because it brought back a rush of memories and emotions of when my H used to do the same exact thing to me.It reminded me why I need to stay away. He stopped getting physical years ago, but he still uses psychological abuse and that is what he's trying to do using our daughter, now that I said to stay away from us. It seems he's only satisfied when I am groveling after him and I realize that fully now. I am moving forward in my life and am finally strong enough to shut the door to him completely. He has been calling, texting, and emailing me now but I have been ignoring it all. Unless he gets help, there is no room for him in our lives...and help takes time.
"And we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose."-Romans 8:28
