New to this Community seeking advice

[JR09]

Carlos,

Thanks for caring. I'm OK. Kinda anxious today. My W has til FRI to file a motion to keep the divorce proceedings active or else it will be dismissed this coming FRI. I don't know what to do. Shall I call her and tell her that I'll do whatever she wants me to do even if I don't want a divorce? Or should I just wait til FRI, then call her to ask her what she wants to do next, if she hasn't filed any motion to continue the proceedings?
On one hand, I don't want to embolden her to do anything if I call before FRI. On the other hand, if I call before FRI, I am showing her that I accept her decision regardless of the outcome. I don't know what to do. Any input, Carlos?

JR