I'm thinking there are grander things at work here K4D. Spoke with STBXH about an hour ago and he states "there is never a good time for something like this. The divorce is not going to change the way I feel about you and my heart issue is not your fault. We need to close this book and see if we can write a new one."
STBXH thinks this divorce is tantamount to shaking an Etch-A-Sketch and erasing all of the mess. My fear is that he is still going to want to be very involved in my life without doing the things he knows needs to be done.
Will update more later...
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." -Eleanor Roosevelt. M-42, H-42. M-22yrs, together 27yrs, Sep 5yrs. D-22, S-18 I'm a survivor