Rinse...it is. It is strange, I used the excuses for so long, and then I started working on my psych degree. I find that many people tend to label many other people to avoid the real issue, which is that some other people are just jerks.
But whatever gets you through the night I suppose.
My story in a nutshell...been separated going on two years, stbx had an affair, I tried, he didn't, I moved across the country. I am a paralegal so I prepared divorce paperwork, and he has yet to file. I have even offered to pay the filing fee, but apparently he is too busy to get it done.
Guess this means I will do it, but I am okay with that because I don't want to be married to the jerk anymore.
Do you post on this forum?
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Sounds like...me? Good grief, we really are on the same boat. I am sad some of the newcomers dont have a clue yet of what's coming. How do you break the news? Better stay away from that forum at the moment... Hugs Lola K
K I have no idea. I like the idea of working on the marriage in theory, but honestly, have seen so many that don't work. I think that is one of the reasons I stopped posting in MLC, because I am not good to post to anyone who is still hanging in there. I think most should chalk it up before more damage is done. But it is a process.
I really hate that word, process. Screw the process. I wish to God I had not wasted so much time, but on the other hand, I did learn a lot. But I think I would have learned it w/o going through all this BS.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
I did, however, find a nice little boy toy...hehe 'm I bad???
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Very good for you. I am no where near ready.... for a new job. KIDDING. For a boy, er man. And however painful the "process", there is some good to come of it in the end. We do learn from the experience. I wanted my exh back soooo bad, and he was such an unbelievable jerk. Being the LBS, I really had the rosey glasses on. For the 1st year or so after our spilt, he could only the bad parts of our m, and I could only see the good parts. At this point, I can barely remember that it ever was good. I have such disdain for that man. Drinking too much and making sloppy decisions that affected me and my D. I wish I were indifferent towards him, but I actually hate him. I never want to speak to him or see him again in my entire life. :-) Tell us more about the boy? oh, and the job.
Ahh well the job is actually a temp job but I am interviewing for a permanent one this afternoon...looks good there. Decent money, more than enough to live comfortably.
As for the boy, he is younger which is a nice thing. I am not ready for a relationship, but the flattery of someone 20 years younger is a HUGE ego boost, and I am finally, FINALLY, getting laid. (Doesn't hurt that he is built, in more ways than one...)
And since it is a fling, I don't have to worry about emotional attachment!!!!!
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
