Kimmie and Karen, thank you.

Flicka, good to hear from you again!

The only "shotgun" I have is my new business-like approach and calm, very short email replies to all things frantic and furious from H.

Speaking of which, I haven't heard a word from him - or my L either for that matter.

I guess "hammering out a settlement" (H's words) by the 24th is not going to happen, seeing as there are just 3 business days left?


Me 56
H 47
Married 21 years
No children
Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself".
Ow Bomb 8/07
H filed 6/08
D final 2/05/10