One thing I will say ... don't be surprised if you get to a point where you think, "what sick sadistic b*tch recommended this book with *all this talk about sex* to a separated person???" I apologize in advance for that, but if you soldier through, there is so much wisdom that is just *basic* to any relationship, even if the sex portion of the program is non-field-testable at the moment. Even in the more specifically sex-oriented passages, there is much that can extrapolate usefully, IMHO.
"Show me a completely smooth operation and I'll show you someone who's covering mistakes. Real boats rock." -- Frank Herbert