Well, I think when it all comes down to it - it's called - Pride & societies expectations. I'm certain, that is why my xh didn't want to try. (Well that & not learning the skills to). You are supposed to hate your x - not get along with them.

Your H is in a bit of a circle (merry go round) isn't he?


Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)