Well just a quick update here. So I decided to email my xh today (his work email). I get a response back saying xxx no longer works here!! What?!?! So I called his cell phone & left a message saying his email bounced back & said he no longer works there & was wondering if that was true. If so, I was sorry to hear & to call me back if he wanted to talk. I get home & there's a message on my machine from him apologizing for not telling me & that he is working on putting his life back together.
Wow!!! 1. He apologized for not telling me. He doesn't really have any obligation to tell me - strange. 2. Can anyone say Karma? 3. I just avoided a huge possibility of being responsible for his debts!
I feel so bad for him. Yet, the oddest thing is ..... is he was always luckiest with me. (Meaning he had good luck - not bad when with me). Although, life was probably pretty boring with me, no living on the edge & struggling, no drama. And for 40 years that's all he has known.
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)