Just wanted to tell you that you are hanging in there good. I have learned (I hope) when I am confronted with an uncomfortable situation like you were with the family, just act sweet, nice, & friendly....don't be loud and an attention seeker, and most people will almost have to be nice to your face...lol. They are going to say whatever behind your back regardless of how you are. You did a good job.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!