Quote from book, p. 60,

" ...if you get your identity from your feelings -- then you can afford to have them change. You'll feel like you won't know who you are..."


ooooooh! Ding Ding Ding Ding Ding!

I think this is part of where H is right now.

The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.

My sitch - Divorce Busted!
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