hi vicky, i just caught up.

something has to change and perhaps your boundary setting will do it. he is still getting away with acting the way he always has because he doesnt see a consequence.

set the boundaries. i wouldnt make plans with him. and stick to it, he may think that after a week u will forget. dont forget.

let him show u he wants to treat u the right way.


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09