Well my plan did not work, my W pulled a work around on me kinda. I called & text her back yesterday night after she said she could bring the tax info and left a message to just let me know when would be a good time b/c I had plans; she never answers her phone. If by chance she calls me she just hangs up and does not leave a message. If she does leave a message it is done by the voicemail system that allows you to leave a voicemail from a message someone has sent you and that way you dont have to physically call. Seems as if she is trying to hide what she is doing from someone. Maybe she is being controlled, doesnt want to mess up her current investment or showing someone the respect she should have shown me. She is avoiding me for some reason or another. She's operating like she's undercover to where she can't tell me when she can be here and then just shows up. I may not get a chance to talk to her, she is being to evasive. I actually would like to talk about our M and where it is going or not going to gain some closure. But from what I seen today, if I told her we needed to talk about this, she may just bring the dissolution papers and put them in my car. Why is she avoiding me and not wanting to deal with this? Should I look at this as confusion w/her or hope for us? I have not been out to my care yet maybe she left the dissolution papers to; that just hit me, and would not surprize me. I have heard there is an OM, just not from her yet. I knew this all along, at least that's how it felt.
