Lightbulb moment, reading someone else's thread...I forgot that I can "handle it" regardless of what comes up...duh!
how do you know?
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
LOL! On the contrary, all I have under control is my commitment to detach and focus on myself and my kids. Everything else is like Mr. Toad's Wild Ride...I'm just watching from the sidelines these days rather than getting on...