Bbj, eventually everybody gets what they deserve. TRUST me on this. What does it matter what he will use to ease his f@ckd up brain? Stop thinking over things you cant control. My stbxH spent months of accusing me to the point my own parents were doubting me. My friends were telling me I was a bitch. You know the story. It took 3,5 years but we all know now why I had become a bitch all of the sudden. He doenst even defend himself when I refer to that time.
Let him go. In your heart and mind. I am sorry sis, we both made a realy poor choice in our lives. We dont have to waste the rest of it over them. As Sara says and I know, there are some really good men out there that will be happy to be our men. K
I would say the same things even if my stbxH wasnt as bad as he is. I actually thought Dan was the even worse scenario...