Boundaries are guidelines for how you want to be treated. If he skips a date and calls later, let him know you had a good time anyhow but that you won't be setting anymore dates with him until he can show you that time with you is valuable.
If he yells at you for example, tell him that you will not accept that from him and either end the conversation or ask him to leave. Let him know when he has acted towards you in a way that makes you happy so this isn't just about negatives. Figure out out how you expect someone to treat you and then you are going to have to "teach" him those boundaries.
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Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
