Also, like you said. You may be keeping your S's M together by your example. In the long run, that would pay great dividends for your grandkids. They could look back at you and thank you for it.
Keep trying new things with H. You never know. You might just run across something that finally works. But don't quit.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...