Over the Shock and GALing 6

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I understand the THIS marriage comment. And a NEW marriage is possible. But - well - you know.

Remember your buddy Coach played legal hardball with me and in doing so, won my respect (even though I was SPITTING MAD at first!) and focused my attention on the 'do I really want to do this' matter.

Stay clear with her about why this is happening. Careful how you put it. You wouldn't want to say "well YOU started this, Mrs. T" or anything like that. Clearly remind her about the deal breakers (OM FB), clear signals she is sending (wedding ring, disrespectful behavior on her part, things she has declared in terms of wanting out) and that you have decided not to live in THAT marriage.
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