But, to answer a question that ju,ped out at me... indecisive seems to be the WAS's middle name. With a good bit of anger thrown in. And it is always the LBS's fault.
Staying clam is good. Ignore his bad behavior. Take care of yourself.
This isn't a day to day thing, it takes a long time. So don't try to read too much into any one action. Just keep breathing!
