Thanks to everyone! I have really been down and out all weekend. Our D finally got a letter from him after I sent out another one from her certified so he couldn't say that he didn't receive it again. She got it on Sat. and sat on the couch and read it out loud to me. She started to cry because she said she missed him so much but they were also happy tears because he wrote her back. Poet I thought that he wanted me to find his phone number also but there is NO way to look a cell number up on the internet plus I'm posting his letter on here and it says right in the letter that he will not call my cell (which is the only phone we have now). Here goes everyone:
Hi D,
Just got your letter. I want you to know one thing there isn't a day that goes by I don't think of you. I miss you so much. There are days I feel really sad and cry for you and other days I know you are really busy, so that makes me happy when I know you are busy.
D, there is so much I want to talk to yuo about I just don't know why peole have to lie and say things that are not true. You know D, me and you were always together now all of a sudden its gone. I know I might of been hard on you but I just didn't want you to get in any trouble or get hurt. You are my Baby Girl and always will be. People have hurt me with there lies and I got over it, its just going to take time. D, you need to listen to yourself and think for yourself. Don't let others make your decisions for yu and whoever says your dad don't want anything to do with you or don't love you they are no good.
D, I will be in contact with you. I will not call your mother's phone. Sone how some way we will talk I promise you.
I miss you so much
I love you very much.
Love your Daddy
Hope to talk to you befor you go back to school. Then he wrote how his son from a previous relationship told him to tell her he got his driving permit and they have been out driving and he's pretty good.
Now, everyone no one has lied about my H at all! No one ever told our D that he didn't love her or miss her. I even have her in C. I don't know if he thinks all of this is true due to the lies he has been telling or what? He said in the last hearing that me, our D's C, and my lawyer were all liars!
He didn't even go into the visitation hearing about our D. His step-mother did. I think our D's C's report has him believing that our D is being told these awful things!! I would never hurt a child in a million years! The only thing I've been lying about is that he still loves my S from a previous marriage that he raised for 13yrs. and has not even called him since he left!
I'm so confused! I don't get why he hates me so much, I pray and pray but he hates me. It is so obvious, he won't even call my phone to speak to D.
Input please!
Thanks to md, mac, kevin, harpo, and poet!!!! Please give me some guidance. I realy don't know what to think anymore!
