I believe she did send it because she feels embarrassed at getting caught.
I don't usually subscribe to gucciloafer's ideology, but in this case it's appropriate. Start going out for you. You've wrestled the control away from her and the ball is in your court. Now you don't have to worry about doing something that SHE's not going to like. To hell with her.
Keep living your life. You'll get to the point to whether or not you want to forgive her and even want to get her back. She has alot to atone for and the fact that she has not apologized shows that she has a long way to go.
Keep up your healing. Praying for you and the boys.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.