This is really hard. D13 just called me at work, told me her dad was on the way to pick her up. Several hours early. When I asked why so early, she told me that OW and family were going to the State Fair, so they were going to take her along.

I'm happy that she gets to go; I wasn't able to afford to take us, even with free tickets. Things are very tight financially with school starting. But--I HATE that she's going with these people!! I hate that they get to have a good time with her when I can't afford to do much besides provide the basics. This whole thing is just so unfair and there's not a thing I can do about it. She has my husband--why does she want my daughter too?


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012