Truth of the matter in thinking about it, I don't even know how to set boundaries actually. I've gotten so much intp the habit of just telling h how I feel that its crazy that I'm now realizing that I don't know what I should be doing to set these boundaries. Where do I begin? If he stands me up, what should I do. The last time I just went ahead and saw the movie without him. Should I just not even bother to schedule dates with him anymore. should I use NC as a means of setting boundaries, how should I actually do this. I just realized that I don't know how to do this properly.