Well I don't think the "should have filed earlier" stuff helps you AND I don't even think it's accurate.
You would wonder if you could have hung in there or been more forgiving, etc. Better to think you stayed too long than left too early. Really it is.
What have you learned? To pick a better spouse? Okay, that's a start, but that is only a little about YOU...And what else? I don't mean for you to list your flaws, but to really figure out how you will feel safe with another woman down the road. Don't let your stbxw make you distrust, or slow your ability to love again, but DO learn something that helps you find happiness sooner. Make sense?
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M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
