Is it time to start piecing?

[Hope4us]

Just wanted to give you a little more encouragement.

I saw in your sig line that your W sleeps in a separate room.

My W slept on the couch for pretty much a year and a half. There were times a good 6 months after her A ended that she would recoil at me even touching her in any way. 9 months ago she moved back into our bed, but it was still another few months before she let me touch her in bed.

But here we are, 17 months post A and we ML on a semi regular basis, she is interested in ME and my day. She gets a smile on her face when she sees me. Heck, just today I happened to be driving near her office around lunch time so I called her and we had lunch together. This is the same woman that a year and a half ago told me she didn't want me anywhere near her office and she did NOT want to see me during the day. Or the night for that matter.

So it can work. It takes patience like I never believed was in me. I sometimes think God was teaching me a lesson. A lesson that I still have to make the effort to remember. Patience.

Hope this helps.