Alright...still confused as to who this is...Is this StillLovesHim or Kassie?

I know that three years is a long time,but I also know that it is not as long as some have been going through it. However, I am patient if nothing else. For the record, I can understand to an extent her feelings. I was home for seven months. Any sort of problem she had with me was intensified by me being there. Also, my being laid off put a huge financial strain on the marriage as well. On top of everything else, she is going through some personal issues that are unrelated to me, yet I think these issues tend to point out the worst points of me, if that makes sense.

On top of everything else, I may be loyal, but I have my faults. I am not the most together guy in the world. I can be a bit scatter-brained and don't always remember to do everything. Really, if I'm going to work on one thing, its that I have to be better organized. I rely on her too much to keep everything running. I will do what needs to be done, but often I have to be reminded that it needs to be done in the first place. With everything else that is going on, that can add a lot of stress to her life.


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