BUT, boundaries are set by consistency. By actions. By tone of voice. By choosing your battles wisely
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This issue of consistency is exactly why I chose to bring this text issue to the board. So I can make a clear decision about how I am going to interact with H and stick to it.
I feel like I'm speaking Chinese. I get that I have to set boundaries and be consistent; I am here to define what that will be so I can implement it.
Trust me, I had already detached pretty well but your sitch really drove home that I must take care of me and not make concessions.
