I agree with Mike, I wouldn't let him dictate what is going to happen. This is tough stuff, believe me I went through 3 years of hell and came out the other side, so I know. Get your ducks in a row, be prepared and take care of you and the kids. If he wants his family back he has a lot of changes he would have to make and counseling is just one of the things he would need to do. He needs to learn how to take responsibility for his own actions.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory