Remember, she does not want to be "Married" to me, with all that that means, but she does NOT want to proceed.
She wants to be uncommitted, to be free from responsibility to work on herself, to be free to think about and explore possibilities for the future, but at the same time to have me quietly provide support and $ in the background.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.