My goals are to start living my life again & to have fun doing it. I need to get my finances in order & make sure I know how much I need to make to survive. I need to get all the divorce stuff worked out w/custody, money, etc.

Fortunately for me, I have always been the breadwinner & am able to keep my house & everything in it. He doesn't really want anything.

I might get slammed for this one, but to be honest, I want to get my old self back. The one before I was beaten down & trying to make changes. I'm sure some will stick with me, but I liked myself before, my friends & family liked me & I was happy with who I was. I feel like I lost something in this process & I want to get it back.

Me 36, Him 33
M 11yrs, T 15yrs
S 8, D 7
ILYBINILWY - 1/09
H moves out 10/09
D to be final SOON I HOPE!