Hi. I'm new around here and have been reading like crazy for several weeks. I'm still trying to wrap my head around what's going on and with my W and will probably start a thread with my story in the near future. But in the meantime, I have been extremely curious about the subject of exposing the affair as a means to end it and reconcile (as opposed to being spiteful or getting revenge). In general terms, what are everyone's thoughts about exposing the affair to family, friends, co-workers (hers), employer (hers), especially if the OM is already divorced. Does it work? Does it hurt the chance to reconcile? Thoughts?
