Gucci!!!!!! Wait, please. I get it. But with questions like this, about me being sick etc. should I give a short answer and end it at that? Or nothing at all. I see ignoring as creating more drama IF his communication is reasonable and in this case, I think it is.
What about the work thing and him wanting to connect me with his friend? I told him to go ahead and give her my number but I don't want him in the middle. I would rather not deal with him at all and do it on my own but it does cut me off from a lot of opportunities. I think it is better to just really be separate
Also, we have huge money issues to deal with and may be filing for bankruptcy...lots of communication required in that case.
I'm telling you, I have been doing well at not engaging with him. Actually, it has been great. I just don't need to be provocative unless it will benefit me.