I think you’ve done the right thing contacting him. It sounds like it went well.

It’s early there’s no need to consider re-establishing any R other than one of friends and co-parents at this point.

What would be your goals for this new R?

You also need to consider you current partner. Was he a rebound? What sort of life have you built with him? Should you be honest with him and let him know that your X has been in touch – that only seems fair.

Take it slowly whatever you decide.


married 23 years
4 grown up kids