What I want is to have stability and sanity for my kids and myself...hooking him in may or may not contribute to that goal.
Seriously, I want to get out of the mindset of trying to save the M and into the mindset of negotiating effectively and getting what I deserve in our D. If by some miracle a R happened, good, I guess, but I am just not seeing it anymore.
So, my communication should lead to what is going to benefit me and my kids.
And, yes, Gucci if you're checking in, I read your advice. Is the goal hooking him in or moving on with my life? Cuz I want to follow your advice but then I need MAJOR support in dealing with the potential drama...
