BBJ,

All kids want their parents to stay together. I had similar concerns about D8. Luckily things "seem" to be working out with her. I think the key is for you guys to be civil when you are together and also that your kids see a happy BBJ. Hopefully that will be enough. I feel for you BBJ...really I do. Even though we see stuff coming, we do not always belive it and it still hurts.