Some great ideas here Sanderika thanks. I will continue to attempt to get an email convo going but will mix it up a bit so it’s not just about thanking my H for something or another.
Bait not taken so far, but then no one ever said this was going to be easy.
Could do with a bit more help round the house, H knows it needs doing, hasn’t offered so far. I’ll just get on with it then and see what if I get any reaction to that.