(John, my sister's kids will smell something bad or see something gross and 'will themselves' to puke. Dan has seen them do it. Last week, Dan had the kids and I was out. When I got back, Sydney was on the couch saying 'I need to puke' over and over. Dan said she had come and asked him for a 'puke bowl'. Yes, when my kids have already thrown up once, I give them a big tupperware bowl to sit by them in case it happens again. But I don't do it until they have already puked, I don't encourage them to do so! But it doesn't matter, b/c HE has decided that I do...)
His texts just say:
* he cannot/will not deal with 'this' any longer.
*We will talk details this week
*He has nothing good in his life except his two children.
*And his resentment/anger/hate (his words) for me are spilling over and wrecking his time with them
*He WAS happy once, when he didn't have to deal with women
Our pastor would pick up on the 'women' comment. Dan told me 20 months or so ago, "I hate women". It was in a text and had something to do with OW was being manipulative, etc b/c he tried to break it off with her, he thinks all women have hidden agendas, etc. As a woman, I have no leg to stand on apparently. I just hope he understands that one day Sydney will be a woman...
