Hi
No I think you done good, at this stage, any invitation not matter what can seem pushy. I’m hardly an expert though.

Difficult wasn’t the word for it, I must have been horrible, couldn’t see anyway forward, had nothing to look forward too ra ra ra. Having said that my H reaction was to tell me to pull myself together or get to the doctors – not helpful. That’s behind us though I’m looking forward and DBing my a$$e off –to mixed success.


married 23 years
4 grown up kids