DID XH M OW or not??

[cagzmom]

oh yes, and peace.. i agree with Snodderly. My sister used to tell me the same thing about my x and his bimbo at the time. She would say "let her deal with it... it isn't your issue."

We have to let them go completely. We can't be the safety net.

Today while I was getting ready for work that really really hit me. I know that my x is severely depressed.... but if I "go to the rescue" i am NOT helping him. I an enabling him and not allowing GOD to work. I am not his God... Because of our being together he found God... it was not my job (nor yours) to rescue him. Though I want to ... IT IS GODS job.

Let go my friend... (and yes this post was as much for you as it was for me!)