So we reached the ends of our ropes. We will be signing next week unless she changes for some odd reason. I don't see that happening for any reason at all. I know she has mentally drained me.
To elaborate on that she showed up at the bar I was at last night a d there were some girls hitting on me. And she said she was jealous about the interaction. Of course she was there with OM, and that shouldn't be a problem should it. I almost got arrested over that one when he got into my face. Guess he wanted to see bow tough I could be. I was the one who didn't end up leaving.
explain this one more. you go out. they stalk you. she gets jealous. then he gets jealous of you over her jealously and tries messing with you? why did that interaction have to take place?
Somewhat. I go out. They show up. She gets jealous. She gets pissed and jealous. I try to stop her to ask what her deal is. He gets mad that I touched her arm to stop her and tries to get into it with me. Then there are 3 people holding me back while he hides behind W yelling. Then cops show up and it has to end. Readers digest version, but that sums it all up.
So I have gone as dark asi think I can possibly get with the kid sitch I have. W manages to get the kids to pass off the phone while talking to them occasssionally though. We had separate trips this weekend, me with kids, her with OM, I would get an occassional text, something about hope it was fun or thanks for taking kids. Now I keep getting little jabs for not replying to anything. I have to assume this is normal behavior from a WAS.
Man. I hate this. Again, I have to just assume that it is normal for the WAW to try and continue contact. I keep getting just simple little text with things like questions regarding kid situations. These are things that were covered in convo last week. Could she reAlly just not remember?
So, nothing really new to report here. W continues to cross boundaries, and I continue to try to enforce them. She has been cooperative on most of them, but I usually have to push them pretty hard to get her to understand and agree on them. Papers should be finalized next week sometime and D will be official. Not happy about that, but had to do it, I think it will be the only way she will eventually come out of the fog. In the meantime, I am enjoying my new life, and having fun most of the time.
