I know that YOU will know what to do for you and your kids. I DB'd my a** off for almost two years, and one day I woke up and was just done.
Everyone has their own time frame -- I just got to the point where I thought: "Why am I trying so hard for someone who just doesn't really want/care/love/need me."
I'm a catch, and you are too. When everyone else in your life sees this but him -- then it's not YOU it's HIM.
At least you don't have all the sludge of OW to wade through -- thank God.
Hope your day is better.
Here for you.
Stace - soon to be DelishDish - what do you think??