Thanks for encouragement Tomato! Not throwing in the towel, just pointing out that from what I've read, many WAS's seem to have mood swings and waffle back and forth alot. Not mine from what she's said and what I've seen (or what she's let me see)...but who knows what's really going on inside her pretty little head. She isn't exactly breaking the speed of light with moving out or with the D. She hasn't had time away from me for all of this to sink in. She needs that time as do I.
Any thoughts on how to handle contact from her after she leaves, especially if she needs a favor or advise on some household related issue?
Me45 (D11 from 1st marriage) W43 (D20 & D16 from 1st marriage) M4 Bomb 6/16/09 W wants D W moved out 8/29/09 I sent her D paperwork 9/25/09...I'm done