Originally Posted By: Silent Chrleader
Originally Posted By: hoosiermama
..... I just don't always trust my feelings these days.


You and me both!! Did you see my update over on my thread from today? crazy

I feel so out of my element in so many ways these days......

not yet, but I'll check it out.

it's difficult when during years of therapy, we learn to feel, identify, and trust our feelings. and then, sometimes when we do, someone takes advantage of that or manipulates our feelings. the natural thing is to shut down again; trying not to do that.


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012