..... I just don't always trust my feelings these days.
You and me both!! Did you see my update over on my thread from today?
I feel so out of my element in so many ways these days......
not yet, but I'll check it out.
it's difficult when during years of therapy, we learn to feel, identify, and trust our feelings. and then, sometimes when we do, someone takes advantage of that or manipulates our feelings. the natural thing is to shut down again; trying not to do that.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012