Thanks girlfromoz - it certainly does seem that people here are more full of compassion than anyone else that I have managed to talk to (back home). I get the odd email but they don't get it - they are all so shocked and confused but also see that H has hurt me too much and I should bin him off and move on quickly. They all think that I am so strong but I am really as weak and wobbly as a new kitten. Their advice is to go home - but I don't want to.
Good luck with your sitch - I see that you are still in the same house and that would appear to be a big bonus.
Later .
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"
