back after 10 weeks of recovery and need some help

[Doingitright]

Steady. Thanks. I did ask her about her crystal ball. She said she dint have one and I said then how do you know with certainty that we will have mediocre marriage if we stay together. She kept going back and forth with no feelings and then she knows in the future....fill in the blanks.

We are now on our family vacation. And we just celebrated W's b-day. She asked if we could relocate her. It would be agreat place to relocate for business after she graduates. She was then talking about nxt years family vaca and other future thngs and it made me pause and think.

This vaca is so hard. We still have 5 days left. She is slepping by herself inthe other room. Kids think mom has to sleep alone. Doesn't like sleeping with someone else not even them. So far so good. W was talking about her school starting in 2 weeks. Hr planning the start of her school and the kids.

I have a question...w spoke about us not having done a new kitchen, or built a patio. How do you 180 something like that? I have been looking at this as more of we can't make big decissions. Also that I Ned to take more chances was a dagger she through. I am not sure how to 180 that. I do know I will pass my wife the # to call to get a dr referral hen we get back. She is all over the place. She pissed off my D saying she got so many happy b-days wishes on facebook she felt so loved. D said we love you and we are family. She back peddled but not to D's satisfaction.

Struggling with the whole thing. Will be back later with Q's. Have to get ready to fly out for work.