When you're ready to give this a ponder, here are two insights related to your sitch:
1) If what you're feeling atm could be classified as resentment (Oh, NOW she's interested in working on it!), there are folks talking about that very thing over in Piecing. I think it's in the Tips thread? Maybe a sep thread for Advice? I'll see if I can dig up links tomorrow.
2) You've expressed several feelings common to the WAS. Not trusting that the changes are real or lasting. When you wanted to work on things, she didn't, and now that she does, you feel irked about it. And now you're not so sure *you* want to work on it. There's some powerful insight (and empathy, maybe?) for your WAW there if you think about it some.
Have a great trip!!
Last edited by Dia; 08/18/0906:19 AM.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
My sitch - Divorce Busted! http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1804137#Post1804137