Walk away wives aren't IN happy loving relationships. That's the point isn't it? Did you read DB or DR? The point is that they've talked and cried and screamed and talked some more and their H's don't listen. When they say, well I don't love you anymore and I want a divorce, then they listen. Well big deal.
WAW's feel rejected, devalued, and uncared for. I have yet to know any woman personally that got involved with another man that was looking for new and exciting sex. You seem to think EVERYTHING is about sex. They were looking for someone to care about them. I wasn't even LOOKING for it...I was friends with this person, online, and it eventually became more than friends as we got deeply emotionally involved. I was naive enough to think it was "safe" since it was anonymous at the beginning, and I had someone safe to talk to. So I let my guard down and then it snowballed from there. It was only later that I found out all this was calculated on his part. I take responsibility for my part, but I was also carefully made to feel emotionally dependent on this guy. I met him in person a grand total of one time, and by then I'd decided to divorce.
All of our situations have common themes, but they are not all the same. BTW, I am the one doing all the work to save my marriage.
